Messages From The Masculine, Inspiring Your Feminine Heart

#325 – Healing From Heartbreak. There Are Less Effective Ways. And A Better Way.

 

#324 – Saturday Night (FB) Live! More About Harassment. What Happened To Respect?

 

#323 – #metoo #timesup Alleged Sexual Harassers Get Comeback? And Coachella Isn’t Safe For Women.

 

#322 – Counter Offer For Love? Stand For What You Really Want. Raise The Bar. Don’t Settle.

 

#321 – Is Love Too Painful? Afraid Of Loving Fully Again? I'm Here To Help.

 

#320 – Why Do You Ignore You? The Pain Of CoDependence. How To Change.

 

#319 – The Victory Of Being Single. Learn To Love Yourself First. Let's Talk.

 

#318 – Men Are Lazy, Don’t Make It Easy For Us!

 

#317 – Mirror, Mirror, On The Wall, Who’s The Fairest Of Them All?

 

#316 – Do You Believe In Love At First Sight? Why This Might Be A Nightmare.
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#315 – Men, Stop Being A Victim Of Your Libido.
#metoo #tonyrobbins #timesup #sexism #sexist #clueless #puritanicalbias #growup #respect #respectwomen #equality #truth #timeforchange

 

#314 – You’re A Strong Woman. Why Settle For A Weak Man?

 

#313 – Stop Blaming Others For Your Dating Woes. Do Something.

 

#312 – Stop The Shame. You’ve Made Mistakes. Now What?

 

#311 – Women Are Waking Up. They Deserve Better. Men, Own Your Calling, Stop Making Your Partner Be It.

 

#310 – Milady, Are You More Powerful/Successful Than Your Man?

 

#309 – When Are You Done With Being Right? Ego vs. Heart. Which do you follow?

 

#308 – Do You Believe In Love? Or Do You Believe In Pain?

 

#307 – You will not be saved. It is up to you. You are your own s/hero.

 

#306 – Actions Speak Louder Than Words. Especially In Relationship.

 

#305 – Are You Still Invested In Your Baggage?

 

#304 – Happy Easter – It’s Begin Again Day! Don’t Repeat The Past.

 

#303 – Happy Holiday Weekend – New Beginnings For Love. You Are More Than You Think.

 

#302 – What To Say To Someone Who Says They Want To Be With You, While Being With Another.

 

#301 – What Do You Really Want? Are You Willing To Pay The Price?

 

#300 – What Is The Divine Feminine? Why Is It Needed Now, More Than Ever?

 

#299 – No Is Respectful. No Is Not Rejection.

 

#298 – When Should You Be Ready For Love? Is There A Time?

 

#297 – Ladies, Are You Taking The Driver’s Seat? Not A Good Idea.

 

#296 – Be Your Best You, Reflections On The Expo. Oops, I Exposed My Manifesto!

 

#295 – Relating The Real. Broken Promises, Truth & Lies. Even Dick Pics?

 

#294 – The Muse And The Masculine. How The Feminine Inspires Our Lives.

 

#293 – What They Think Of You May Be A Lot Better Than You Know. A Self-Esteem Booster!

 

#292 – Healing Yourself Leads To Real Love. This Is Real Talk With The Love Doctor!

 

#291 – Adventures Of A Single Relationship Expert – Dating and Matching. Insight into the awakened masculine.

 

#290 – It’s Never About The Toothpaste Or The Toilet Paper!

 

#289 – Do You Take Care Of Yourself For Their Sake? Do You Stop Taking Care Of Yourself Once In Love?

 

#288 – Do You Avoid Yourself In Love? Are You A Self-Avoider?

 

#287 – Blind Dates, Referral Dates, Match Dates. Before You Date, Do This.

 

#286 – Women’s Lib Ruined You For Relationship And Dating. Here’s Why.

 

#285 – Are You Faking It? Be Real For Love, It’s Easier For Many Reasons.

 

#284 – Stop Making An Ass Of Yourself. Let’s Talk About Rejection Too.

 

#283 – I’ll Take Care Of You. Really? Let’s Talk (part 2)

 

#282 – I’ll Take Care Of You. Really? Let’s Talk.

 

#281 – What If Relationships Are To Get To Know Other People, Rather Than To Satisfy A Void In You?

 

#280 – International Women's Day. Now What? Warning, there's homework!

 

#279 – It’s My Birthday. Reflecting On Love, And Embodying Both Masculine & Feminine.

 

#278 – Ladies, Are You Putting All Your Eggs In One Relationship?

 

#277 – Have You Ever Wanted To Go Back To The Way It Was? Let’s Go Deep.

 

#276 – What Sort Of Movie Would Your Love Life Be Like? Oscar edition.

 

#275 – The Diminishing Of Women, And The Damage It Causes.

 

#274 – The Demonizing Of Men, And The Damage It Causes.

 

#273 – True Love Is Not A Numbers Game. Why The Numbers Game Sucks.

 

#272 – Ladies, This Is How Not To Get Your Man! And The Best Way To Get Yours.

 

#271 – Ladies Over 45, Don’t Deny Your Libido!

 

#270 – Your Future Relationship Won’t Fix Your Past Pain.

 

#269 – Who Do You Trust For Love Advice? How's Your Heart?

 

#268 – You Know You’re Dating A Narcissist If…!

 

#267 – Fear And Dating – Are You Nervous To Date? Here’s Why.

 

#266 – A Guide To Dating In The #metoo Era.

 

#265 – A Surprise Of Black Panther – Respect For Women. #wakandaforever #respectwomen #blackpanther

 

#264 – The Abdication Of Men, Part 3 – Don’t Push, Don’t Control. No More Beta, Learn To Lead.

 

#263 – The Abdication Of Men, Part 2 – Speak Up, Own Up, Stand Up.

 

#262 – The Abdication Of Men, Part 1 – Brotherhood, Respect, Gentlemen Please.

 

#261 – Let’s Talk About The Vagina Monologues And #metoo

 

#260 – Why A Relationship Expert Or Coach May Be Right For You.

 

#259 – Do You Have a Valentine’s Day Hangover? Here's Your Cure!

 

#258 – Happy Valentine’s Day. Attention: Singles, I Have Good News!

 

#257 – Tomorrow Is Valentine’s Day. Here’s Your Singles’ Survival Guide!

 

#256 – Two Days Till Valentine’s Day. Are You Ready? Keys To Enjoy V-Day While Single, And More!

 

#255 – Single With Three Days Till Valentine’s Day? So Many Choices!

 

#254 – Single? With Four Days Till Valentine’s Day? OMG! Don’t Panic!

 

#253 – Breaking Up Is Hard To Do There's A Hard Way, And There's A Better Way. Take Notes.

 

#252 – Say Yes To Love, Unless … Dropping More Truth Bombs!

 

#251 – No Means What? Part 2 – people pleasing and more.

 

#250 – While You Were Dating – No Means What? #metoo

 

#249 – Social Media & Dating. The Good & The Bad.

 

#248 – Relationship – Partnership Or Opposition? The Trap Of Codependency.

 

#247 – Lets Talk About Ghosting!

 

#246 – An Invitation To The Feminine. #yearofthefeminine #metoo #timesup

 

#245 – How We Men Can Respond To Women Around #metoo

 

#244 – Are You Done Playing Games In Dating? Here’s How.

 

#243 – How Can We Connect In The #timesup #metoo Era?

 

#242 – Healing Your Wounds. Stop Self Blame, Heartache Can End.

 

#241 – Stop Blaming Others For Your Dating Woes. Here's the power you have, that you deny.

 

#240 – I Am A Passionate Champion For The Divine Feminine. An Explainer (and a Manifesto?). #metoo #timesup

 

#239 – Why I Do What I Do, Why I Love Doing It. Witness my unexpected epiphany!

 

#238 – Why Men Lose Their Way In Relationship.

 

#237 – Now We Are In The #metoo Era, How Do We Date?

 

#236 – Dating For Grownups. Here’s Some Starter Ideas.

 

#235 – Pain Pushes Till Vision Pulls – how this changes to your dating choices.

 

#234 – Reality Check: Have You Stayed Longer Than You Should?

 

#233 – How Deep Will You Commit? Relationships For Serious People.

 

#232 – Manners Maketh The Man. Ladies Listen Up. #metoo #timesup

 

#231 – Betrayal, The Wound That Festers. How To Heal.

 

#230 – The Comparison Trap Sucks! Going Deeper. Here is Your Solution.

 

#229 – The Blame Game Sucks! Here's Why. I Offer A Better Way.

 

#228 – MLK Day, I Dream Of Gender Equality. Judge By Character Not By Appearance.

 

#227 – Did You Graduate From Your Last Relationship? Seven Indicators To Help You.

 

#226 – Tired Of Dating Failure? Don’t Trust Your Own Judgment? Where Are All The Good Men?

 

#225 – Even Strong Women Make Dating Mistakes. Truth To EmPower.

 

#224 – Dating Is Like Gardening, You Get Out What You Put In.

 

#223 – Clues Your First Date Should Be His Last! And Vice Versa. For Your Heart.

 

#222 – #timesup On Suffering. It’s Time For The Healing Journey #metoo

 

#221 – Men, Stop Being A Dick, Grow Some Balls. #timesup

 

#220 – Break-Up – Break Down, Break Through, Or Repeat. You Choose.

 

#219 – Relationships Are Like Presents. Do You Fall For The Gift-Wrap?

 

#218 – No Means No! It Doesn’t Mean Anything Else. A Deeper Look.

 

#217 – You’re Too Much. Shutup. Quiet Down. Be A Docile Woman. You’ve Been Lied To.

 

#216 – Why Are Men Emotionally Unavailable To Good Women? Are We Settling?

 

#215 – Why Do Heartfelt Women Choose Emotionally Unavailable Men?

 

#214 – Happy New Year! What are your plans for 2018? I’ll share mine.

 

#213 – Stop Cursing 2017 – 5th Key To Rock Your 2018!

 

#212 – Releasing (stop throttling your intentions) – 4th Key To Rock Your 2018!

 

#211 – 2018 is the year of Mastery. What will you bring?

 

#210 – Feeling It – 3rd Key To Rock Your 2018!

 

#209 – Vision Board How-To – 2nd Key To Rock Your 2018!

 

#208 – New Year’s Resolutions? Or Intentions? 1st Key To Rock Your 2018!

 

#207 – Whole-Hearted At The Holidays While Alone. A Christmas Gift and Reminder.

 

#206 – Happy Holidays, With Homework! Do your homework: Love, honor and cherish YOU!

 

#205 – More Home (Work) For The Holidays! Especially if you are alone.

 

#204 – Home (Work) for the Holidays – Three Gifts!

 

#203 – Why Do Good Women Choose Bad Men?

 

#202 – Why Self-Love Is Vital To A Healthy Relationship.

 

#201 – Men, How To Treat A Lady.

 

#200 – What It Takes To Last In Love. A conscious beginner's list!

 

#199 – Why Would You Choose A Convenient Relationship? And A Few Good Reasons Why Not.

 

#198 – For The Ladies, You Are Not Over Him If…

 

#197 – Flirting And Sexual Harassment. There Is A Difference.

 

#196 – What Is Partnership? Part 6 – Nobility and Reality.

 

#195 – What Is Partnership? Part 5 – Take A Break, Don’t Be A Victim.

 

#194 – What Is Partnership? Part 4 – Bring The Light.

 

#193 – What Is Partnership? Part 3 – Honor The Differences.

 

#192 – Ladies, You Are Invited, As The Awakened Feminine.

 

#191 – What Is Partnership? Part 2 – Mutually Assured Elation.

 

#190 – What Is Partnership?

 

#189 – The Rise Of The Divine Feminine. Men, Wake The F#ck Up!

 

#188 – Relationship Is Easy, So Why Invest In Coaching?

 

#187 – In Love, Do You Choose Road Blocks Or Unmapped Territory? Let's Talk!

 

#186 – Ladies, Act Your Age.

 

#185 – Don’t Ask For What You Don’t Have. A Dating Tip, And More.

 

#184 – Which Voice Runs You?

 

#183 – Abuse. Why Are You Ashamed?

 

#182 – Getting What You Want, The Right Way. Includes Insight into Sexual Harassment.

 

#181 – Surrender In Relationship. Surrender In Love.

 

#180 – When Harry Met Meghan! Prince & Actress, Kings & Queens. Oh My!

 

#179 – Why Are You Here? Why You Are Here. We need the Feminine, now.

 

#178 – You Assume Too Much, Especially In Relationship. Referencing my book!

 

#177 – Stop The Insanity. Abuse is hereditary. How you can help. #metoo #abuse #healing #hereditary #counsel #love #help

 

#176 – Ladies, Escape The Malebox, Now!

 

#175 – Happy Thanksgiving! How was your day? How is your GQ?

 

#174 – Will Your Thanksgiving Be Thank-Full? Here's a helpful guide to raise your GQ – Gratitude Quotient.

 

#173 – Get Over It? Be Prepared For Thanksgiving. Four tips to make your trip home more comfortable.

 

#172 – Boundaries, Billboards & Betrayal! Are You Ready For Thanksgiving?

 

#171 – Ladies – Soften, Trust, Embrace. Yes, you will appreciate this!

 

#170 – Ladies, second guessing yourself? Pros and Cons.

 

#169 – What They Think Of You Is None Of Your Business.

 

#168 – Don’t Pay The Price Being A Female Entrepreneur.

 

#167 – Feminine Authority Is Needed, Now. What Is It?

 

#166 – Feminine Authority Is Needed, Now. What Is It?

 

#165 – Thinking or Feeling? How do you love? Is it all in your mind? Do you know how to feel vs. emote?

 

#164 – Stop Pretending For Love. Act Natural On Your First Date & Beyond.

 

#163 – RESPECT. It’s time. #metoo

 

#162 – Using the “F bomb” for healthier relationships.

 

#161 – What Is It To Be Truly Single? Easier? Harder? Freeing? Boring? Exciting?

 

#160 – The Price You Pay For Love. What It Can Cost You, And How To Stop It!

 

#159 – The love you want isn’t out there. Here's why. Bonus – three ways you can heal yourself.

 

#158 – Let’s stop the soulmate bulls#it!

 

#157 – Stop Taking Poison Hoping They Will Die. Stop Being A Victim.

 

#156 – Looking For Love In All The Wrong Places. Find It The Right Way (Actually Two Ways).

 

#155 – Your Past Relationship Will Ruin Your Next One Unless You Do This.

 

#154 – Dropping The Mask, How Men Can Step Up.

 

#153 – Don’t Believe Everything You Think! Giving You At Least 3 MASSIVE Keys to Think Better.

 

#152 – Come As You Are, No Disguise Or Costume Required. Let's Go Deep.

 

#151 – Relationships need more T&A.

 

#150 – May You Never Find Your Other Half!

 

#149 – Fence Sitting Hurts, Commit Or Walk Away.

 

#148 – Men Are Lazy. Yet We Work So Hard. What Does This Mean In Relationship?

 

#147 – When the loving gets rough. When do you stay? When do you leave? Including a little soulmate exposé.

 

#146 – What happened to you is not your fault. What happens now…is up to you.

 

#145 – What Will You Give Up For Love? Your Dignity? Your Dreams? Your Safety?

 

#144 – He Has To Have Money, To Have A Beauty Like Her. A Match Made To Fail.

 

#143 – You Can Have Anyone You Want. Why Don’t You? Are You Settling?

 

#142 – What Lights You Up? What Inspires You In Relationship?

 

#141 – No apologies. Pray and pay, what does that have to do with love?

 

#140 – Golden Rule Of Love – Say What You Mean, Mean What You Say. A little healing reminder included.

 

#139 – Thanksgiving and #metoo. A Match Made In Hell? Sharing Some Sage Advice.

 

#138 – Taking the “#metoo” conversation deeper, with more support. Is it time to let yourself out of prison?

 

#137 – Speaking To “#metoo,” The Pain, Hurt & Offering My Support.

 

#136 – Are Your Eyes Even Open To Love?

 

#135 – Finding A Relationship Is Easy, Finding THE Relationship Starts With You. Two Keys That Help You Get The Love You Want.

 

#134 – It's Friday Night. Who Are You Swiping Right On For This Weekend? Start With You.

 

#133 – Dating In The Paddling Pool? Ready To Dive Deep In Love? This Is Why You Stay In The Shallow End.

 

#132 – About Sexual Harassment, Part 2 – How It Relates To You.

 

#131 – Talking About Sexual Harassment.

 

#130 – Powerful Women Deserve Powerful Men. Or Do They?

 

#129 – Messages From The Masculine #129: Does It Hurt When I Do This? aka. Why You Blow Up On Your New Lover.

 

#128 – When It Comes To Dating, You Think Too Much! Part 2

 

#127 – When It Comes To Dating, You Think Too Much!

 

#126 – You Might Be Dating A Dick, If He Does This. Five things to watch out for. Five things to look for!

 

#125 – The Masculine Man Stands For Something, Something Good.

 

#124 – Matchmaker, Matchmaker, Make Me A Match?

 

#123 – Marriage and Engagement Are Not Convenient

 

#122 – Rejection, The Art Of Release

 

#121 – Thank Your Ex, You Are Better Because Of Them…IF

 

#120 – Dating Sites & Apps Will Fail You, If You Don’t Do THIS First.

 

#119 – Ladies, All The Good Ones Are Not Taken!

 

#118 – Why Are You Still Dating Like A Teen?

 

#117 – What Will You Sacrifice For Love? Let's Talk!

 

#116 – One Day Your Prince Will Find Someone Else. Thankfully!

 

#115 – Why Do People Stay In Bad Relationships? Why Do You?

 

#114 – Why Be Single? Isn’t It Better To Be Coupled?

 

#113 – Why Are YOU Chasing Relationship? This Is The Right (or Better) Reason.

 

#112 – Can You Have An Authentic Relationship? What Does It Take?

 

#111 – Ladies, Put Down That Dating App! You’re Doing It Backwards.

 

#110 – Desperate Is, As Desperate Does. The fool's way to date.

 

#109 – Boundaries, WTF? How you stop being hurt and abused.

 

#108 – We Can't Be Loved Until We Love Ourselves. Watch this, there's homework!

 

#107 – Stop Dating Like A Child! Yes, you!

 

#106 – Success and Failure, How Men and Women Celebrate Differently.

 

#105 – When She Yells, He Shuts Down. Why?

 

#104 – Putting it out there is not the answer. Here's what is…

 

#103 – Women are stronger than men. Here's why.

 

#102 – Women are the weaker sex. Bull$#it!

 

#101 – Ladies, she is not your competition. She is your ally.

 

#100 – Stop Living In Reality, It's An Illusion!

 

#99 – You Have So Much Choice For Relationship! Why Do You Limit Yourself?

 

#98 – What is the price of love? Are you willing to invest?

 

#97 – Can You Risk Being Real On Dates? Time To Stop Pretending?

 

#96 – Don't date out of loneliness. Stay single.

 

#95 – Are Men Patient Enough? Talking about purpose, love and more.

 

#94 – Dating Apps – What They Are & What They Are Not.

 

#93 – Relationships – the best place to grow? Or to stay the same?

 

#92 – Ladies, You Deserve Respect. Starting a conversation.

 

#91 – How Does A Strong, Successful Woman Attract The Right Man?

 

#90 – Ladies, do you embody your elegance?

 

#89 – You Don't Need Relationship Guidance . . . If

 

#88 – Ladies, Let Men Be Men 

 

#87 – Forgiveness – A Master Key To Free Your Heart 

 

#86 – You Weren't Born With Instructions! Why Love (and Life) Can Feel Challenging. 

 

#85 – Are You Ready For The Real? 

 

#84 – The Polished Man (#PolishedMan), and about that little green bottle. 

 

#83 – Are You Afraid To Love? 

 

#82 – Why do people equate love & romance with drama & dysfunction? 

 

#81 – Conflict: How The Awakened Masculine Man Responds 

 

#80 – Are You Done Being The Victim? Here's How. 

 

#79 – Why I Am A Champion For The Divine Feminine. 

 

#78 – What are your deal-breakers? Are they short-term or long-term? Are they real? 

 

#77 – Still Settling? Why? 

 

#76 – Ladies, learn how to use dating apps the right way. 

 

#75 – Men, Want It Both Ways? With added thoughts about current events! 

 

#74 – Ladies, Want It Both Ways? 

 

#73 – #Charlottesville, perspective from a deeper place? 

 

#72 – Monogamy -or- Is One Not Enough? 

 

#71 – At Least 5 Qualities Of The Evolved Feminine 

 

#70 – At Least 5 Qualities Of The Evolved Masculine 

 

#69 – It's Time To Give Up "The Man Of The House" & "The Little Lady" 

 

#68 – Ladies, I Am A Man, And I'm Here To Help! 

 

#67 – Stop Pretending Not To Know! 

 

#66 – Ladies, Be Led or Controlled? 

 

#65 – Ladies, Fed Up With Whiny Men? 

 

#64 – Truth In Advertising When Dating? 

 

#63 – Stay Single Until You Meet A Guy Like This? 

 

#62 – Letting Go To Let Miracles Happen! 

 

#61 – Are You Suffering From The "All The Good Ones Are Taken" Syndrome? 

 

#60 – Relationship Challenge – Wanting To Stay The Same 

 

#59 – Still Waiting For Your Prince? 

 

#58 – Self-Abuse Is Optional 

 

#57 – Sacred or Sexual? Either? Both? 

 

#56 – To Give, Or Receive? 

 

#55 – Pushing Or Pulling, What's Your Default? 

 

#54 – You're Trying Too Hard 

 

#53 – Oops, I Did It Again! 

 

#52 – When The Reality Doesn't Match The Fantasy​​ 

 

#51 – Stop Telling Stories​​ 

 

#50 – Woman, Know Your Place!​​ 

 

#49 – Is Being In Relationship A Good Thing?​​ 

 

#48 – You Don't Deserve A Gentleman… ​​ 

 

#47 – Is Being Single A Good Thing? ​​ 

 

#46 – Staying Safe, Playing Small ​​ 

 

#45 – Be A Strong Woman, The Right Way ​​ 

 

#44 – A Voice For The Feminine ​​ 

 

#43 – You Won't Respect Him… ​​ 

 

#42 – Be More Loving. You Deserve It. ​​ 

 

#41 – He Won't Respect You… ​​ 

 

#40 – How NOT To Be A Dick ​​ 

 

#39 – Don't Be A Dick ​​ 

 

#38 – You Are Enough ​​ 

 

#37 – Feminine Vision ​​ 

 

#36 – Gift Wrap or Content? ​​ 

 

#35 – Why Me? ​​ 

 

#34 – Rinse & Repeat Romance – It doesn't work. ​​ 

 

#33 – Embrace Freedom In Love! ​​ 

 

#32 – Let men hunt ​​ 

 

#31 – Dating apps aren't built for women ​​ 

 

#30 – Single Parent Dating ​​ 

 

#29 – Bullying In Relationship, includes ball busting ​​ 

 

#28 – Ladies, Are You Independently Fierce? ​​ 

 

#27 – Feminine Mysticism and Magnetism ​​ 

 

#26 – Feminine Sovereignty ​​ 

 

#25 – Why Men Stop! ​​ 

 

#24 – Feminine Shamanism ​​ 

 

#23 – Ladies, you want a man with purpose ​​ 

 

#22 – An apology, a reminder, a suggestion ​​ 

 

#21 – Ladies, you deserve the best, not what's next ​ 

 

#20 – Time to step up, by first stepping in ​ 

 

#19 – Being a ball buster doesn't serve you 

 

#18 – All The Good Ones Are Taken. NOT!​

 

#17 – Death, Demons and Destiny​

 

#16 – Where Is The Love?​

 

#15 – You found your match, he is "The One " Now what? ​

 

#14 – What Makes A Gentleman? ​

 

#13 – International Women's Day, A Man's View

 

#12 – My Own Story

 

#11 – V-Day Is Over, Now What? Featuring 5 Love Languages Insight

 

#10 – Your Dating Mistake #1 – Wishful Thinking (And A Few Solutions!)

 

#9 – Ladies, We Men Don't Emote Like You

 

#8 – Ladies, You Deserve A Gentleman

 

#7 – Post Pink Pussy March

 

#6 – A Message Of Hope, And More.

 

#5 – Ladies, Stop Becoming Men (Part 2)

 

#4 – Ladies, Stop Becoming Men (Part 1)

 

#3 – Ladies, You Are Strong

 

#2 – Ladies, Dream Bigger

 

#1 – Ladies, Stop Playing at 80%

 

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